Dating a spiritually immature man Mobile java adult chat
Immaturity is a clear sign of emotional instability.
Here's how you can suss out if your man fits that bill...
I am not implying that a man has to be a prude, but he is to be a protector.
If a man is addicted to pornography, he is already committing adultery/fornication in his heart, even before you tie the knot.
You have to be married to this person till death do you part, and you can choose whether your marriage will help you to grow in serving another believer, or will pull you down and bring you much sorrow.
Choose wisely, and trust God’s sovereignty if that man has not come along yet.
As Solomon, the wisest man of all, said, “For wisdom is better than jewels, and all that you may desire cannot compare with her”, (Proverbs ). A man who does not want counsel and hides from accountability is a man who is not ready to be open with a wife.
He may seem strong and independent, but he may actually be prideful.
Proverbs makes it clear that you will only be ensnared. You may actually become an enabler who receives the brunt of his anger. Those little childlike qualities may seem really cute right now, but it will grow old (and aggravating) shortly into marriage. If a man is not responsible with his time, money, and work, why would he be responsible in his future family life? You should also consider your date’s relationships with other people.
Neither of your bodies belong to each other until you say “I do,” (1 Corinthians 7:4), so it is wrong for a man to treat a woman as if he has free reign with her body before marriage.
I think it is safe to ask this question: if a man is not honorable and pure before marriage, why would he be so afterward? However, if he could not keep his hands to himself before marriage, how do you know he will keep them to just you after marriage?
It’s an good question that needs to be considered seriously. The same applies for sexual innuendo that is inappropriate before marriage.
If he is always broaching conversations about sex, he is not doing a good job of helping you to protect your mind against lust before marriage.
While you do not want that to happen, it is reality. Also, if he wants you to meet all his needs, that is close to idolatry (Exodus 20:3, 4). Do not fall for the statement of, “I just care about you so much,” when a guy won’t keep his hands to himself.