How much is dating without drama
Every guy knows a friend in that type of relationship and feels sorry for him.
His girl runs his life and anytime he makes a slight error she jumps down his throat.
Try to remember that small errors are normal behaviour and don’t make it personal – dating a ‘perfect’ person would not be a barrel of laughs, after all.
“She broke into your home, has threatened ”“Yeah,” my old roommate mutters sheepishly, “You were right about that military/crazy thing.”“Oh, this has nothing to with the military….” I say as I imagine a young woman with a vendetta breaking down a door and stealing my clothes.
It starts off innocently enough, wanting to spend time, getting to know one another, and humorous little jabs about how we’re “missed” when we’re gone more than a few hours.
This will quickly devolve into her spending every waking second wondering why you haven’t called or texted, berating you because your lack of time together shows you “and it’s poisoning not just her, but you too.
Our lives didn’t revolve around each other, and we were much healthier for it.
Happy marriages are also reported to function best when both partners can enjoy time apart without having to entertain the other.
In JRR Tolkien’s epic trilogy, we’re introduced to a character named Smeagol.